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Being Raised by the Internet (jimmyhmiller.github.io)

837 points by DamonHD · 682 days ago · 314 comments on HN

Article summary

The author recounts their childhood experience of growing up in poverty, where they had to rely on a weekly allowance of $20 to buy food and often went hungry. They found solace in computers and the internet, which became an escape from their difficult living situation. Through online resources and open-source software, the author was able to learn new skills and eventually improve their life circumstances. The author attributes their success to the kindness of strangers who shared their knowledge and work online.

Main themes

  • Poverty and hunger
  • Internet as a resource
  • Open-source software
  • Online communities
  • Social support systems
  • Childhood trauma

What commenters say

  • The internet can provide a vital escape and educational resource for individuals in difficult living situations, especially for those in poverty.
  • Some commenters argue that the author's experience is not representative of the typical American experience with poverty, and that social support systems are often inadequate or inaccessible.
  • Others suggest that the author's success is due to their own resourcefulness and determination, rather than solely the kindness of strangers.
  • There is disagreement about the effectiveness of social support systems, such as free lunch programs, in addressing poverty and food scarcity, with some arguing that they are essential and others claiming that they are often hindered by parental neglect or lack of access.
  • Commenters also discuss the differences in poverty and social support systems between the US and other countries, such as those in Europe.
  • Some argue that online communities and open-source software can provide a sense of connection and empowerment for individuals who may be isolated or marginalized in their offline lives.
  • The conversation also touches on the importance of empathy and understanding in addressing poverty and social issues, with some commenters emphasizing the need to listen to and learn from the experiences of others.