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Loneliness is stronger when not alone (pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov)

494 points by hirundo · 1164 days ago · 437 comments on HN

Article summary

The article's content is not available, but the discussion suggests it explores the concept of loneliness, particularly in social situations where one may feel isolated despite being surrounded by people. Commenters share their personal experiences and perspectives on loneliness, social connections, and individual preferences for alone time or social interaction. The discussion touches on the idea that loneliness can be more pronounced when one is alone in a crowd, and that people have different comfort levels with solitude and socializing. Some commenters find joy in being alone, while others feel a strong need for social connections.

Main themes

  • Loneliness and social connections
  • Individual preferences for alone time
  • Nature and solitude
  • Personality and upbringing
  • Community and relationships
  • Inner fulfillment and happiness

What commenters say

  • Some people feel more lonely when surrounded by others, especially if they are alone in a crowd.
  • Others enjoy being alone and find it preferable to socializing, with some even feeling exhausted by social interactions.
  • The desire for social connections versus alone time may depend on individual personality, upbringing, and environment.
  • Nature and solitude can have different effects on people, with some finding it calming and others feeling isolated or melancholic.
  • The concept of loneliness is complex and may be influenced by factors such as personal relationships, community connections, and inner fulfillment.
  • Some argue that the lack of connection with nature, oneself, or the community can contribute to feelings of loneliness, rather than just the absence of other people.
  • There is a distinction between being alone and feeling lonely, with some people able to appreciate solitude without feeling isolated or unhappy.