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Basic Social Skills Guide (2012) (improveyoursocialskills.com)

1291 points by lisper · 2520 days ago · 409 comments on HN

Article summary

The article presents a basic guide to social skills, covering core concepts of social interaction through seventeen in-depth lessons. The guide is divided into sections such as Foundations, Body Language, and Conversation, and is available for free. It aims to help individuals improve their social skills and achieve their social goals. The guide also includes quick how-to guides and tips for supporting friends.

Main themes

  • social skills
  • communication
  • personal development
  • career success
  • relationships

What commenters say

  • Having good social skills is essential for career success and effective communication in the workplace, even for software engineers.
  • Some argue that social skills are more valuable than technical skills, while others believe that both are necessary.
  • Being honest and direct is not always enough, and social skills are required to communicate effectively and avoid offending others.
  • Having a personal life, including relationships, can be seen as a distraction from work and may negatively impact productivity.
  • Social skills are not just about being likable, but also about being able to work effectively with others and achieve common goals.
  • Technical skills are still essential for success in fields like software engineering, and social skills should not be prioritized over them.
  • Being able to balance work and personal life is crucial, and having good social skills can help achieve this balance.