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Almost one in five men admits to having no close friends, a survey has found (thetimes.co.uk)

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Article summary

A survey found that almost one in five men admit to having no close friends. The discussion around the article reveals that this issue may be related to increasingly formalized work environments and the difficulty of forming meaningful relationships outside of work. Many commenters shared their personal experiences with forming and maintaining friendships, highlighting the challenges of modern life. The article's specifics are not available due to a paywall, but the comments provide insight into the topic.

Main themes

  • male friendships
  • work-life balance
  • social isolation
  • modern relationships
  • hobbies and activities

What commenters say

  • Work environments can hinder the formation of meaningful friendships, leading to social isolation.
  • Having hobbies and engaging in activities outside of work can help form and maintain friendships.
  • The distinction between 'work friends' and 'friends' is important, as work friendships may not be as lasting or meaningful.
  • Some people find it difficult to form friendships after a certain age, especially if they have gone through significant life changes.
  • Long commutes and demanding work schedules can leave little time or energy for socializing and forming friendships.
  • Certain activities, such as team sports or group hobbies, can provide opportunities for forming friendships and social connections.
  • The internet and online communities may not be a sufficient replacement for in-person social interactions and friendships.