It's later than you think (linkedin.com)

Article summary

The author shares a personal story of losing his 8-year-old son, Wiley, to Sudden Unexplained Death of Epilepsy (SUDEP), and reflects on the importance of prioritizing family time and not taking life for granted. The author regrets not spending more time with his son and encourages others to cherish their loved ones. The article also touches on the author's struggle to balance work and family life. The author's experience has led him to reevaluate his priorities and appreciate the time he has with his living son.

Main themes

• work-life balance
• family time
• grief and loss
• parenting
• prioritizing relationships

What commenters say

• Spending quality time with family is more important than career advancement or material success.
• The concept of 'quality time' can be a justification for not being present in one's family life.
• Prioritizing family time and relationships is crucial, especially as children grow up and become independent.
• It's never too late to reevaluate priorities and make changes to spend more time with loved ones.
• Some people may not be able to spend time with their parents due to toxic or abusive relationships.
• The amount of time we have with our loved ones is limited, and we should make the most of it.
• Being present in everyday moments with family is more important than just attending special events or milestones.
• Society often expects children to care for their parents, but this can be a burden and may not always be possible or healthy.